If you’ve joined a website that claims to pair guys up with local girls for sex, you might think you’ve hit the jackpot. You probably have seen the profiles of guys who look like total pieces of shit.
In fact, some of them look like piles of shit that caught fire, and on their arm are swinging very, very good-looking women. We’re talking about American women here. We’re talking about corn-fed, Midwestern American pussy.
I have nothing against Thai or Filipino women that were flown in for mail order husbands, but I’m not talking about that shit. These are fucking chicks from America that are normally harder than fuck to get into bed.
If you’re the typical red-blooded all-American male trying to meet and fuck free of charge you know exactly what I’m talking about. If you’re looking for local pussy, it can get dicey out there. Sure, you can get laid every once in a while, but when it comes to a steady flow of pussy from many different chicks from Midwestern America, you definitely have your work cut out for you.
So you’ve seen all those pictures and you see that these dudes are fucking banging chicks left and right and they look like total shit. Well, feel good. But the problem is, you need to define your success the right way. Otherwise, you are going to fail again and again. This is very important.
I’m sorry that nobody has broken this lesson to you yet, but hey, better late than never, right? Here’s the lesson: success with local girls for sex really depends on how you pace yourself. In other words, don’t think that the only metric for success when you join such websites is when you actually get your dick into some hot, tight pussy. That’s looking at the ultimate score or the ultimate measurement of success.
My suggestion is that you should frame your success metrics based on where you are in the game. When you start meeting chicks, your first framework should be the fact that you started meeting girls. In other words, you should define success as to whether you are meeting women or not, and in the volume of women.
Next, communication. You should have success metrics based on how well you communicate.
If you are able to do this in all areas of the online dating game, then you have a more realistic chance of succeeding. But if you continue to measure your success or failure rate based solely on how much pussy you’re going to eat and fuck, then you’re setting yourself up for failure. You really are.